Fixes https://emqx.atlassian.net/browse/EMQX-9367
For better user experience and performance for the average bridge, we
should change the default queue mode to `memory_only`, as was the
behavior of most bridges in e4.x. This leads to better performance
when message rate is high enough and the remote resource is not
keeping up with EMQX.
Also, we set the default segment size to equal max queue bytes.
Kafka Producer and Consumer bridges rely on this prefix for detecting
a dry run and avoid leaking atoms. At some point, this prefix was
changed, effectively disabling the check in Kafka Producer.
some telemetry events from wolff are discarded:
* dropped:
this is double counted in wolff,
we now only subscribe to the dropped_queue_full event
* retried_failed:
it has different meanings in wolff,
in wolff, it means it's the 2nd (or onward) produce attempt
in EMQX, it means it's eventually failed after some retries
* retried_success
since we are going to handle the success counters in callbac
this having this reported from wolff will only make things
harder to understand
* failed
wolff never fails (unelss drop which is a different counter)
With this, we avoid performing work or replying to callers that are no
longer waiting on a result.
Also introduces two new counters:
- `dropped.expired` :: happens when a request expires before being
sent downstream
- `late_reply` :: when a response is receive from downstream, but the
caller is no longer for a reply because the request has expired, and
the caller might even have retried it.
This makes the buffer/resource workers always use `replayq` for
queuing, along with collecting multiple requests in a single call.
This is done to avoid long message queues for the buffer workers and
rely on `replayq`'s capabilities of offloading to disk and detecting
overflow.
Also, this deprecates the `enable_batch` and `enable_queue` resource
creation options, as: i) queuing is now always enables; ii) batch_size
> 1 <=> batch_enabled. The corresponding metric
`dropped.queue_not_enabled` is dropped, along with `batching`. The
batching is too ephemeral, especially considering a default batch time
of 20 ms, and is not shown in the dashboard, so it was removed.
