some telemetry events from wolff are discarded:
* dropped:
this is double counted in wolff,
we now only subscribe to the dropped_queue_full event
* retried_failed:
it has different meanings in wolff,
in wolff, it means it's the 2nd (or onward) produce attempt
in EMQX, it means it's eventually failed after some retries
* retried_success
since we are going to handle the success counters in callbac
this having this reported from wolff will only make things
harder to understand
* failed
wolff never fails (unelss drop which is a different counter)
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