https://emqx.atlassian.net/browse/EMQX-8548
Currently, we face several issues trying to keep resource metrics
reasonable. For example, when a resource is re-created and has its
metrics reset, but then its durable queue resumes its previous work
and leads to strange (often negative) metrics.
Instead using `counters` that are shared by more than one worker to
manage gauges, we introduce an ETS table whose key is not only scoped
by the Resource ID as before, but also by the worker ID. This way,
when a worker starts/terminates, they should set their own gauges to
their values (often 0 or `replayq:count` when resuming off a queue).
With this scoping and initialization procedure, we'll hopefully avoid
hitting those strange metrics scenarios and have better control over
the gauges.