Fixes https://emqx.atlassian.net/browse/EMQX-11771
For the same reasons as we inject `emqx_bridge_*` applications as dependencies to
`emqx_bridge` when starting the node. Already configured connectors are started when
`emqx_connector` application starts, and may lead to crashes and noise in the logs. One
example is to configure a mongodb bridge and restart the node.
system_monitor has to be found in application (or included_applications)
otherwise dialyzer fails with Unknown function
Adding to 'applications' would cause a deadlock because one
cannot call application:ensure_all_started in the application/2
callback.
Fixes https://emqx.atlassian.net/browse/EMQX-10944
Also updates ekka -> 0.15.15, mria -> 0.6.4
How to test
===========
1. Start 2 or more EMQX nodes and merge them in a cluster.
2. Stop them in order.
3. Start only the first node that was stopped in the previous step.
4. Wait until the log is printed.
Or, more easily:
1. Start 2 or more EMQX nodes and merge them in a cluster.
2. Stop all but one.
3. Run `mria_mnesia:diagnosis([]).` on that node.
Example output
==============
```
Check check_open_ports should get ok but got #{msg =>
"some ports are unreachable",
results =>
#{'emqx@172.100.239.4' =>
#{open_ports =>
#{4370 => false,
5370 =>
false},
ports_to_check =>
[4370,5370],
resolved_ips =>
[{172,100,239,
4}],
status =>
bad_ports},
'emqx@172.100.239.5' =>
#{open_ports =>
#{4370 => false,
5370 =>
false},
ports_to_check =>
[4370,5370],
resolved_ips =>
[{172,100,239,
5}],
status =>
bad_ports}}}
```
After one node is back:
```
Check check_open_ports should get ok but got #{msg =>
"some ports are unreachable",
results =>
#{'emqx@172.100.239.4' =>
#{ports_to_check =>
[4370,5370],
resolved_ips =>
[{172,100,239,
4}],
status => ok},
'emqx@172.100.239.5' =>
#{open_ports =>
#{4370 => false,
5370 =>
false},
ports_to_check =>
[4370,5370],
resolved_ips =>
[{172,100,239,
5}],
status =>
bad_ports}}}
```
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